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Published on December 11, 2006 at 12:56 pm  Comments (12)  

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  1. Alhamdullillah…semoga Pernikahan kalian langgeng selalu dalam naungan cinta Allah…

    Aku ikut seneng, seneng banget..karena hasil kompor aku dan temen2 kost nya sista. berhasil..berhasil..berhasil (dengan girang gaya dora emon..)

  2. Oh My God!!!!
    Mungil akhirnya you got hitch juga…. So Happy for you both >_

  3. Makasih banyak ya teh rina atas kompornya🙂 Ditunggu kompor benerannya pas hari-H-nya😛

  4. hai..hai..hai…
    Woooow….4 jempol (termasuk 2 jempol kakiku…)hihihi..untuk kalian b’2 dech…
    Semoga Pernikahan Kalian langgeng sampe kakek dan nenek..Persiapan yang matang…Semoga Aku menyusul mu jugaaaaaa…………(“_”)…..TOOOOB BGT…

  5. Alhamdulillah…, sebentar lagi kalian akan melangkah ke babak baru kehidupan. So much to see, so much to learn.. Yg penting jika sdh menjadi “soul-mate” lupakan kata “aku” yang ada hanya “kita”. Begitu kata yg sdh pengalaman… (cieee….).

  6. Alhamdulillah….oh wow, oh my god…I’m still in SHOCK!! my SISTER!! my tomboy, never wears lace, doesnt really know how to wear make up, never had a boyfriend, adventurous, career-minded, can never really walk in stilletos, SISTER!! and she’s getting MARRIED!! WHAT has the world turned into?!! hahahaha….

    All I can say is CONGRATULATIONS darling….getting married is a BIG step,and I congratulate BOTH of you for having the COURAGE to take that step🙂 I believe its very very courageous to get married, its an amazing union of man and woman..it is a joining of two of the most complex god creations!!

    I hope that your marriage will be as good as your wedding, one that will last until the end of time, full of pleasant surprises, full of excitement, full of hugs that will make you feel safe and loved, full of tolerance and understanding, and most importantly be blessed by Allah all throughout.

    Now Sista my dear, if there are things I’ve learnt when it comes to relationships and men…..

    1. Never EVER call them by their cutesy name in PUBLIC. You can call them big bear or cutie pie or pookie wookie at home but NEVER in public.

    2. Make sure you have a secret code if you want to go home (at a party) or something along those lines. For example, you can go up to Mas Arif and say “coconut” and he has to know that this is your code for “I’m bored at this party/gathering/event, lets go home”.

    3. Make sure you both still have your independence. Being married DOES NOT mean that you OWN each other. Go out with your other married friends or single friends, let him go and do boy things with his friends. And then do NOT question each other, what happens at girls night out or boys night out stays there – this will add that extra spice to your relationship.

    4. Do not think too much, just DO IT.

    5. There are many many rooms and spaces in a house – this includes your backyard at night.

    6. Make sure you set a day of the week as “date night” – many long term relationships couples or married couples get stuck in a pattern of daily life and they end up taking each other for granted, and then they have separate lives. So have a date night special for the two of you – keep the whole “saturday night apel” thing if possible.

    7. Try to NOT answer their mobile phones – Men LOVE the idea that they still have that one independent gadget

    8. Make jokes, laugh together. Wear lace.

    9. Never be scared to put up an argument and have a clear discussion. Do not get into screaming fights, but talk and discuss things – even if they are small things because if you keep them to yourself they will build up into big things.

    10. ENJOY their company in anyway you can. explore together. cook together. clean the house together. have food fights. go to the park and throw a ball around. have picnics. wink at each other when you’re at a party and you’re apart. experience new things together. Shalat together and pray together.

    Aaaahh….relationships and loving someone are the most beautiful thing on earth my dearest sister – congratulations on founding each other!!

    My deepest apologies that I can not attend your wedding, my thesis is due end of January. I will be back in Indonesia for a visit in mid February, and I cant wait to give you our present!!🙂

    Well you asked for an extra long comment and there you have it….hahaha…..

    Once again, congratulations!!

    Lots of love from sunny brisbane,

    Asti

  7. Selamat yach say! Akhirnya,…….
    Semoga senantiasa dalam perlindungan Alloh SWT.
    Berhasil membentuk keluarga yg sakinah, mawaddah-warohmah.
    Jangan lupa, persiapan mental. Karena biduk rumah tangga pastilah akan terdapat kerikil2, tanjakan serta tikungan yg tidak terprediksi sebelumnya. Salinglah erat berpegangan tangan bila ada terjal di hadapan. Jangan ribut soal keuangan. Karena rezeki telah diatur oleh Sang Khalik dan percayalah rezeki tak akan tertukar. Uang hanyalah sarana, bukan tujuan. Saling hormat menghormati dan saling mengasihi itu wajib. Setelah menikah, sadarilah, kalian berdua datang dari dua keluarga besar yg berbeda latar belakang, sehingga saling menghargai keduabelah pihak juga wajib. Mertua adalah orangtuamu juga. Jaga perasaan mereka. Bersyukur serta berterimakasihlah atas semua yg telah beliau2 berikan kepadamu. Terutama ibumu, yg telah mengandungmu selama 9 bulan 10 hari. Ayahmu yg telah bekerja keras demi kebahagiaan anak2nya. Semoga kebahagiaan senantiasa diberikan kepada Kedua Mempelai yg berbahagia. Amiiii….nn ya robbal alamiiin. Say, last but not least. Jangan lupa ini doa untuk menikmati karunia Alloh SWT tsb.(doa sebelum bobo dg.Mas Arif hik…hik…hik…).
    Allohumma jannibnasysyaithoona wajannibisysyaithona maa rozaktanaa.
    Salam,
    Narti & Kel.

  8. Whaaaa… terimakasih banget doanya.. ntar aku apalin deh, hehehe ^_^

  9. sista..selamat yaa..
    moga persiapan pernikahannya lancar n’ pas hari ‘H’ nya smua berjalan sesuai planning…
    gue yakin pasti nanti kmu akan terlihat lebih cantik memakai kebaya putih mu…
    gue pasti akan datang melihat moment itu dimana seorang sista akan bersanding dgn org yg dicintainya dan akan hidup bersama selamanya….amien !!!
    dan kali ini gue yg akan foto-in loe deh…
    gantian yaa…!
    pokoknya gue berdoa biar semuanya lancar ya say’…

  10. Whaaaa… terimakasih banget doanya.. ntar aku apalin deh, hehehe ^_^

    Kalau aku tulis di telapak tangan saja dik😛

  11. Alhamdulillah sieztha akhirnya menyempurnakan agamanya, semoga kelak menjadi istri yang sholehah, teladan bagi anak-anaknya…………………………
    o ya, satu lagi belajar masaka ya biar nanti anak2nya ndut kayak ibu n bapaknya….he….he….

  12. Sista Slamet ya!!
    Insa Allah Gw Bisa Balik Januari Nanti!
    S’moga jadi keluarga Yang sakinah ya!!
    Amin!


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